Jake Turns Three

I can’t believe that my oldest baby is three years old!

This has been a great couple of days with a couple of emotional moments. 

For several months we have been telling Jake that he was moving into his big bed when he turned three. For those of you that didn’t know, Jake loved this crib. I think he would have stayed in it until he went to high school. 
On Tuesday the day before his birthday, I put him down in his crib for the last time. It was at that moment that I realized he was getting big. After I laid him down I called Jim at work and started crying….. I was sad because that was the last time I was ever going to put him in his crib. It was just one of those mommy moments!

Wednesday: February 27-The Big Day
Jake and I spent the morning together cleaning house and then Jim came home at lunch to spend the rest of the day with us. After lunch, Jim and Jake took the crib apart and gave it to Baby Girl. Jake was excited to give his sister the crib, however, he did ask us if he could have his bed back after she was finished using it. We told him yes. By the way, he will be five or six and I don’t think he will want it back at that point.

Once we got the bed set up in the baby’s room, we opened presents and then it was time to take a nap. This was the moment we had been anticipating. Jake climbed in the big bed and didn’t fuss at all. We were excited, no crying. He didn’t nap at all, but he didn’t cry so we were pleased. That night he went right to sleep and we haven’t had any problems with the transition. Once again, Jake has proven to transition very well. I am so thankful!

Sleeping through the night:

Jim and I gave him a play shot gun or as Jake calls it a “shoot” gun. He LOVES it. 

Friday: February 29- The Party
We celebrated Jake’s party on Friday night. He was allowed to invite three friends since he was three years old. We had a Diego Party. It was very small, but he enjoyed having his friends over to play. I was thankful that my mom was able to be hear. She flew in on Thursday and is leaving Sunday. It is great to have people from home visit.

Saturday: March 1- Go Diego Go
This morning was the end of Jake’s birthday. Jim and I bought him tickets to go see Diego Live. We got up this morning and drove to Memphis to watch the show. He enjoyed seeing Diego and Baby Jaguar. I was nervous buying the tickets, but he really did enjoy going. 

Happy Birthday Jake!

Psalm 12:7

There are times that I find myself worrying about my boys future. I get nervous that they are growing up in this generation. I know what it was like to grow up and go through school 15 years ago and I can’t imagine the pressures that they will face in the future.

Well, I was reading today and I found this verse.
Psalm 12:7–You, Oh Lord, will keep them: You will preserve him from this generation forever.

This verse will be one of my new prayers for my boys. It just gave me confidence that my God can preserve and guard them from the negative influences in this world. There will come a time when I can’t personally protect them. I am just thankful that I have a God that loves them and will take care of them better that I ever could.

New Pictures of the Boys

I haven’t posted any new pictures of the boys lately. Since we have been sick for so many months it has been hard even take pictures much less post.

This picture is of Jake. This morning he came running in my room while I was getting dressed. This the outfit he had picked out. I thought it was great! I love the UGA and the cowboy boots. All he kept telling me was,”Mom, I am a Georgia fan.”

Tonight I took pictures of them in the bathtub. Bath time is a good time to take pictures because they are contained:-)

Sweet brothers!!

31 weeks

I thought I would post a picture of my at 31 weeks. I went the doctor on Wednesday. Mommy and Baby girl are doing great! I still can’t believe she will be here in 9 or so weeks. Jake was two weeks early and Judd was one week early. Hopefully, she will decide to come right on time. 🙂 I still enjoy sleeping through the night!!! However, I am eager to see what she looks like and how the boys will act when she comes. 

Last night, Jake was getting ready to go to bed and he looked at me and said “Mommy is your belly still big?” I can proudly say “Yes”
By the way, she still doesn’t have a name! 

Praying for My Children

It is so weird to write children instead of “boys.” How different to know that I have a little girl coming in 11 weeks.

I read this verse last night and it really motivated me to start praying more specifically and consistently for my children.

Lamentations 2:19 says “Pour out your heart like water in the presence of the Lord. Lift up your hands to him for the lives of your children.”

I spent some time last night researching how other couples pray for their children and this is one idea that I thought would work for us. If you know me then you know that I am a list person so I need a list to stay focused.

Jim and I plan to take time to discuss each child’s strengths and weaknesses. Hopefully, by doing this we can commit to pray through each of those areas and work with them to embrace their strengths and have victory over their weaknesses. At the end of 6 months we can reevaluate, update, and praise the Lord for his faithfulness. Also, by writing these down we will be able to look back and see how faithful our God is at answering our prayers.

They belong to Him, we are just allowed us the incredible blessing of raising them for a short time. I want that time to be productive and effective in His eyes.

If you have any input on the topic let me hear from you.

Boy vs Girl Names

Boys names are so easy to figure out. We have two more on our list, but girls names have always been hard for us to decide on. We know that we want it to be a GIRL name. Not a name that could be a girl or could be a boy. We don’t want anyone reading or hearing the name and wandering, hmm, is this is a boy or a girl. 

For example: Jake, there is no doubt in your mind that he is a boy. No question with that one. Judd, once again no question. 
As we continue on this journey to name our little girl, we know that her name will have been well thought out. 

Perdue Family Update

I know that I haven’t even said Happy New Year, but life has been a bit overwhelming at times. I just thought I would give quick update of the end of 07 and the beginning of 08.

Dec 23- Drove to Atlanta
Dec 24- Perdue and Etheredge Christmas
Dec. 25- Brown and Perdue Christmas
Dec 26- Shopping and Jim Cleghorn’s Birthday
Dec 27- Try to relax
Dec 28- Travel to Atlanta
Dec 29- Judd’s Birthday Party at the Mansion and Judd’s One year Pictures
Dec. 30- Travel to Jackson, Ga for church and enjoy Family time at Nanabuds lake house
Dec 31- Jim went hunting and came home with a fever
This is where it gets good:
Dec 31- 11:35 p.m Jake wakes me up telling me that his tummy hurts…..
We stay up off and on until 4 a.m. with him throwing up and then at 4:30 the other part of the stomach bug starts to hit him so we stay up until 7:30 going to sit on the potty….Oh Yeah…Happy New Year!
Jan 1- The day we had planned to travel home…didn’t happen! Jim left us in Georgia so he could get back to work. Judd started throwing up at noon and we just all laid around watching football.
Jan 2- Nana graciously brought us back to TN.
Jan 3- Jim and I felt pretty horrible all day and the boys still needed to recover so all four of us stayed on the couch all day. Jake will Jim and Judd with me. It really was a sweet time to cuddle,but we all felt yucky!!
Jan 4- We finally felt better. I started organizing the house some.
Jan 5- Jim is sick again-this make for another rough day
Jan 6- Church and Jim leaves for Lynchburg for the week
Jan 7-9 The boys and I try to manage without daddy around.
Jan 10- Jake wakes up with pinkeye.
Jan 11- Can’t wait to see Daddy
We are hoping the Jan 14 will bring a new day, new year, and a normal schedule to our daily lives. 
I am blessed, but overwhelmed  this week. Question: what in the world am I going to do with three? I am just thankful this is Jim’s last class!!!!

Baby Trey Update

Many of you have read this, but I thought it was worth posting:

On Dec 21, Jim and I went to have a 3D/4D ultrasound in Memphis. I really wanted to have a video of this baby since I had one for both of the boys and none of the ultrasound places around here would record my 20 week ultrasound. It was so cool seeing the baby in 4D.

Another reason we decided to get the ultrasound was I wanted to surprise our parents on Christmas morning with the gender of the baby. No, I didn’t want to find
out, but I thought that it would be a nice present for our parents. It was a really hard decision for me.

Let’s pause and rewind a few weeks before I continue. At our 20 week ultrasound the baby’s legs were crossed, but the technician made a guess and Jim was able to find out on his 30th birthday. I still didn’t want to know and I didn’t want to find our if her guess was wrong, so I decided not to look at the picture. He did a great job of keeping it a secret.
Okay, back to the 3D ultrasound…..

When we got into the room I told Jim that if we could tell then I would try and guess the gender. So the lady started the video and I was able to tell immediately. I guessed and I was right. I must say now that I will not find out in the future. I REALLY enjoy not knowing….but since our parents and the rest of our family know I thought I would share our
news with each of you.

Jake has known since day one and he has always said “We are having a GIRL!!!” How did I raise such a smart kid!!!

Happy New Year!!! Our world will change in April!

p.s. No she doesn’t have a name!

Judd is 1!

I can’t believe that my little baby turned 1 on Friday. It just seems like yesterday I was waking up at all hours of the night to feed him, and wondering if he would ever sleep through the night. He is now sleeping through the night, walking, laughing, and signing milk, more, and please. He doesn’t talk much, but he is a pure joy to have in our lives.

We had a small party at our house Friday night, but his birthday party is going to be Dec. 29 when we are home for the holidays. I decided to have his 1st birthday party with our family. Here are a few picture from Friday night.

He loved playing in the cake, but he didn’t want to eat any of it.



Daddy, Jake and Judd playing with Judd’s new basketball goal. 

Baby Trey Update

On Jim’s birthday, November 29, we had our 20 week sonogram. This was a great sonogram. We got to see many pictures of the baby. At this point, we have a breech thumb sucker. Also, the baby was sure to keep its legs crossed and the umbilical cord in between the legs. We have a great picture to prove it.
Below are a few pictures from the sonogram. If you would like to view Jim’s favorite go to his blog.

This is the picture of its legs crossed.

This is our baby sucking its thumb.

This is a picture of the face and hands.